Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Where to hear a Special Needs Legal & Future Planning presentation by Brian Rubin…

Where to hear a Special Needs Legal & Future Planning presentation by Brian Rubin…
       
Brian Rubin has been lecturing on the topic of Special Needs Legal & Future Planning since 1982... since his own son with special needs was one year old.  For more information and/or to arrange for a presentation for your group or organization on the topic of "Future Planning for Families of Children & Adults with Special Needs", please contact our office.  Please visit www.SNFP.net <http://www.snfp.net/>  also found at www.BrianRubin.com <http://www.brianrubin.com/> .

        04/16/09 (Thursday), Elmhurst Life Skills Academy (ELSA)

        6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m., Elmhurst College, 190 Prospect Avenue, Elmhurst, Illinois 60126.

        Contact Nancy Cheeseman at 630.617.3211 or nancych@elmhurst.edu.


        03/06/09 (Friday), An Arc of Illinois Seminar,

        Hosted by Arc of Winnebago, Boone, & Ogle Counties

        9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m., 1222 E. State Street, Rockford, Illinois 61104

        Register at www.thearcofil.org, or call 708.206.1930.


        03/18/09 (Wednesday) Niles Township District for Special Education (NTDSE)

        7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m., Molloy Education Center, 8701 N. Menard, Morton Grove, Illinois

        

        02/25/09 (Wednesday), St. Charles East High School 4th annual Post-Secondary Transition Planning Night

        5:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Post-Secondary Resource Fair; 6:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Brian's presentation

        St. Charles East High School, 1020 Dunham Rd., St. Charles, Illinois

        

        02/24/09 (Tuesday), NSSED, North Suburban Special Education District Association of Parents & Teachers

        7:30 p.m. - 9:30 p.m., New Trier High School, Northfield Campus, Northfield, Illinois

        

        02/20/09 (Friday), An Arc of Illinois Seminar, Hosted by Gateway Services, Inc.

        9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m., 406 S. Gosse Boulevard, Princeton, Illinois 61356 (815.875.4548)

        Register at www.thearcofil.org, or call 708.206.1930.

        

        01/30/09 (Friday), An Arc of Illinois Seminar, Hosted by PACT, Inc.

        9:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m., 555 E. Butterfield, Lombard, Illinois 60148 (630.960.9700).

        Register at www.thearcofil.org, or call 708.206.1930.

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        PRESENTATION TITLE:    Planning for when the bus stops coming, and for when we are gone… presented by fellow parent, attorney Brian Rubin.

        DESCRIPTION: Confused? Get "un-confused" by spending some time traveling down the road to understanding and "peace of mind" with Brian.  Topics covered will include: Government Benefits (Overview); Special Needs Estate, Legal, & Future Planning including: Special Needs Trusts; Selecting future care providers such as Guardians & Trustees; Guardianship & the alternatives when 18; Gifting, the right way, by grandparents & extended family; Impact of Divorce and Child Support on SSI; Maintaining Employer Group Health Insurance – forever; PUNs, what is it & why is it now REQUIRED: Navigating the "MAZE" of Illinois Adult Services; Letters of Intent, or Guidance to future care providers; Litigation Settlements, the right way – SSI and Medicaid Friendly; Where Illinois "ranks" among the states; and many, many, more topics…

        SPEAKER:            Brian Rubin is an attorney who has been in private practice since 1977.  He is also the parent of three children, one of whom has autism.  Since 1982, when his own son with special needs was one year old, his law practice has been limited to serving his fellow families of children and adults with special needs.  Brian is the immediate Past Chairman of the State of Illinois, Department of Human Services, State-Wide Advisory Council on Developmental Disabilities; Co-Chairman of the State of Illinois, Department of Human Services, Autism Task Force; a member of the State of Illinois, Department of Human Services, Division of Developmental Disabilities, Strategic Plan Committee; a member of the State of Illinois Disabilities Services Advisory Committee (The State's Olmstead Committee) by appointment of the Governor; and also by appointment of the Governor, serves as a member of the State of Illinois, Department of Human Services, Office of Inspector General, Quality Care Board, a seven person Board which oversees the activities of the Department of Human Services' Office of the Inspector General.   Brian serves on the Board of Directors of The Arc of Illinois, Clearbrook, PACT, Inc., and Special Leisure Services Foundation (Foundation of The Northwest Suburban Special Recreation Association).  Brian has served on the Board of Directors of Keshet, Northpointe Resources, and was the Founding Chairman of the Board of the SEDOL Foundation (The Foundation for The Special Education District of Lake County).  Brian is a member of the Faculty of The Illinois Institute for Continuing Legal Education, and an author of the Institute's textbook on Special Needs Trusts.  Brian is by invitation a member, and serves on the Board of Directors of, The Special Needs Alliance, the national, non-profit, membership by invitation, organization of experienced attorneys in every state, limiting their law practices to special needs legal and future planning.

        Attorney Brian Rubin, the father of a son with autism, limits his law practice to serving the legal & "future planning" needs of his fellow families of children & adults with special needs.

Past Chair, Department of Human Services (DHS), Advisory Council on Developmental Disabilities
Co-Chair State of Illinois Autism Task Force
Serves on DHS Division of Developmental Disabilities (DDD), Strategic Plan Committee
Serves on State of Illinois Disabilities Services Advisory Committee (The State's Olmstead Committee)
Serves on State of Illinois, DHS, Office of Inspector General (OIG), Quality Care Board ("over-sight")
Serves on the Boards of Directors of :

        ·                     The Arc of Illinois

        ·                     PACT, Inc. (PAS/ISC Agent for DuPage County; Trustee and Guardianship Services)

        ·                     Clearbrook (Serving more than 3,000 children & adults with developmental disabilities)

        ·                     SLSF (Foundation of The Northwest Suburban Special Recreation Association)

        ·                     The Special Needs Alliance ("SNA" is the national, non-profit, membership by invitation, organization of experienced attorneys, with law practices devoted to special needs estate and future planning for individuals with special needs and their families).

Served on the Board of Directors of:

        ·                     Keshet (Jewish Parents of Children with Special Needs)

        ·                     NorthPointe Resources (Serving individuals with developmental disabilities)

SEDOL (Special Education District of Lake County) Foundation – Founding Chair
Brian Rubin <mailto:brian@snfp.net>  ► 847.279.7999 ► Toll Free 866.to.rubin ► Fax 847.279.0090
Special Needs Future Planning {The Law Offices of Brian Rubin & Associates} <http://www.snfp.net/>
Member by invitation of The Special Needs Alliance <http://www.specialneedsalliance.org/>  ► 1.877.572.8472


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Monday, November 10, 2008

Chicago area adult sibling get together.


Please see message below and forward on to any other adult siblings that you may know.
Tara Kosieniak
Sibling resources:
 
--- On Sun, 11/9/08, Yoda84@aol.com <Yoda84@aol.com> wrote:
From: Yoda84@aol.com <Yoda84@aol.com>
Subject: [AdultSibsNet] Chicago area Save the date
To: AdultSibsNet@yahoogroups.com, SibNet@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, November 9, 2008, 7:39 PM

Hello Sib Friends
 
I am home from The Sibling Leadership Network and the Ohio Sibs meetings in Columbus and to steal a phrase I am fired up and ready to go.  The conferences were great and I want to thank the organizers. 
 
Now it is time to grow our IL group SIBS, supporting IL brothers and sisters. 
 
Please save the date and join us at my place at 3800 N. Lake Shore Drive in Chicago on Sunday 12/13 at 1 pm.  We will be celebrating finally receiving our non profit status, showing a new short sib film, and talking about system change in IL.  Of course we will have time to just visit and have fun.  Snacks, beer wine and soda with be served.  If you would like to bring something that would be great but we just hope to see you then.  RSVP's appreciated.  Nora 



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    Wednesday, October 15, 2008

    10/15/2008 Announcement from the SLN: Sibling Leadership Network White Papers Now Available Online!

    Forwarded on behalf of Don Meyer and the Sibling Leadership Network:
     
     Since last year’s meeting in DC, members of the Sibling Leadership Network have been hard at work on position papers addressing Research, Policy and Advocacy, and Services and Supports.  Please download and read the final drafts of the White Papers by visiting this link:
     http://www.siblingsupport.org/sln-white-paper-final-draft.pdf or by visiting the Sibling Support Project’s homepage at http://www.siblingsupport.org

    We'll discuss these White Papers during November's historic Sibling Leadership Network meeting in Columbus.  You can download the conference brochure at:
     http://www.siblingsupport.org/about/2008-sln-brochure.pdf or by visiting the Sibling Support Project’s homepage at http://www.siblingsupport.org  

    We hope to see you in Columbus!

    The SLN Meeting in Columbus will be hosted by the Nisonger Center at The Ohio State University; Rehabilitation Research and Training Center of Lifespan Health and Function and I/DD; The Sibling Support Project; and the Vanderbilt Kennedy Center for Excellence in Developmental Disabilities.


    Don

    PS—Please forward this to others interested in sibling issues!

    Don Meyer
    Director, Sibling Support Project
    A Kindering Center program
    6512 23rd Ave NW, #213
    Seattle, WA 98117
    206-297-6368; Fax: 206-297-1473
    donmeyer@siblingsupport.org
    Sibling Support Project website: http://www.siblingsupport.org
    Sibling Support Project online training calendar: http://plus.calendars.net/sibshop  
    Our brothers, Our sisters, Ourselves

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    Wednesday, October 15, 2008 15:35
     
    John Kramer
     
    The Sibling Leadership Network
     
     
    Recent Interesting Sibling Links
    [http://delicious.com/jkrame3]
    bookmarks posted by jkrame3

    ICI - Institute for Community Inclusion - promoting the inclusion of people with disabilities


    "Where's Molly?" Jeff Daly asked his parents one gray spring afternoon in 1957. The six-year-old Jeff stood staring at the empty chair where his little sister usually sat. After a brief silence, Jeff's father answered, "Molly's not here anymore, but she's fine. It's nothing for you to worry about. Forget it and eat your supper." Over the next several months, when Jeff persisted in asking, "Where's Molly?" he was sent to his room. "She lives somewhere else now and she's happy," his mother firmly told him. "You're not to talk about this anymore." Jeff eventually stopped asking about Molly, but deep down never forgot her.

    Where's Molly?


    Autistic Kids: The Sibling Problem - TIME


    2008/09 ILLINOIS LEND PROGRAM TRAINING ANNOUNCEMENT

    2008/09 ILLINOIS LEND PROGRAM TRAINING ANNOUNCEMENT: An Opportunity for
    Future Leaders Serving Children with Developmental Disabilities

    The Institute on Disability and Human Development at UIC is excited to
    announce 15 new LEND training opportunities open to graduate students from
    the following disciplines: (1) Child Psychiatry, (2) Disability Studies, (3)
    Nursing, (4) Nutrition, (5) Occupational Therapy, (6) Pediatrics, (7)
    Physical Therapy, (8) Psychology, (9) Public Health, (10) Social Work, and
    (11) Speech and Hearing.

    The Leadership Education in Neurodevelopmental Disabilities (LEND)
    Interdisciplinary Training Program is a one year training program that
    incorporates both didactic and experiential learning in clinical and
    community-based settings. A stipend up to $5000 per year will be provided.
    This program, sponsored by the Bureau of Maternal and Child Health, aims to
    prepare future leaders who will serve children with neurodevelopmental
    disabilities (including related disabilities and autism) and their families.
    Successful trainees will gain experience in the coordination of culturally
    competent family-centered care, the provision of public health services, and
    the implementation of policy systems change. The training will start January
    11, 2009 and end July 31, 2009. Deadline to apply is October 31, 2008.

    For more information and to download and complete an Application Packet
    please visit our site at
    www.IllinoisLEND.org. You must have at least a
    baccalaureate degree and be enrolled in a graduate program. A trainee must
    be a US citizen, or must have been admitted to the US with a permanent
    resident visa.

    If you have additional questions about the program, please visit our webpage
    or contact our LEND Associate Project Director:

    Jasmina Sisirak, MPH
    (312) 996-3982
    jsisir1@uic.edu

    Monday, October 13, 2008

    SLN White Paper

    To: Sibling Leadership Network (SLN) members and supporters

    You are invited to the 2nd annual conference of the Sibling Leadership
    Network on November 6th & 7th in Columbus, OH. For more information and to
    register, visit www.siblingsupport.org <http://www.siblingsupport.org/> .

    We are excited to share the draft of the white paper (a white paper is a
    report or guide that addresses an issue and possible solutions). This
    document identifies who we are and what we are for. At the first conference
    in 2007, the group identified three key areas to focus on and created
    working groups for each: (1) policy and advocacy, (2) research, and (3)
    services and supports. Designated representatives of these groups have been
    developing the white papers since the last conference.


    We ask you to review the full document of the white paper that is attached
    and come to the conference prepared to discuss and give feedback. If you
    are not able to attend the conference and want to send feedback, feel free
    to email Katie at kkeiling@uic.edu.

    This white paper provides a framework for the SLN and the work we will focus
    on as a group. During the conference the white paper working groups will
    finalize their action plan and begin to implement it. Below is a summary of
    the principles and action steps for the three working groups:

    Policy and Advocacy White Paper Working Group

    Principles:

    Because the sibling relationship has the potential of being one of our
    longest existing relationships,

    * We believe that the term "family" should include siblings, and anyone else
    that an individual with a disability considers family.

    * We believe that siblings have a unique and underrepresented voice in
    advocacy for and with their brothers and sisters with disabilities.

    * We believe that all family members have a right to family support that
    enhances the quality of life for all members.

    * We believe that there are millions of siblings who are an untapped
    resource who can, with the proper support and encouragement, make a positive
    impact in the lives of their brothers and sisters and others with
    disabilities.

    Action Steps:

    * Seek to include the word "sibling" in the federal Developmental
    Disabilities Act by including siblings on all Developmental Disabilities
    Councils and providing funding to support sibling programs.

    * Define other organizations across the nation with whom it would be
    advantageous to partner.

    * Identify key decision makers to whom to distribute the white paper, and
    then distribute it.

    * Create a concise, consistent message that we can then communicate to
    decision makers as well as other siblings and interested parties to
    communicate to their legislators.

    Research White Paper Working Group

    Principles:

    * We believe that siblings with and without disabilities should be in all
    phases of research from conceptualization to dissemination.

    * We believe that research should be inclusive, representative of diversity,
    and culturally competent.

    * We believe there is a place for both description and intervention
    research, using the range of state of the art research methods.

    * We believe that research on outcomes for siblings with and without
    disabilities is of interest.

    * We believe that research should address lifespan issues and critical
    contexts for their families.

    Action Steps:

    * To design a national Web portal that can be an archive for past and
    ongoing sibling research, conference presentations, sibling conferences and
    other events, legislative contacts and advocacy initiatives, Sibshops,
    support groups and other information.

    * To write a template for a core paper that can be disseminated to local
    newspapers.

    * Prioritize research on: Aging, Transitions, and Underrepresented
    populations.

    * To write a paper for researchers that provides guidelines for state of the
    art sibling research methodology.

    * To get a marketing consultant.

    * Create a set of research briefs to be disseminated about issues for
    siblings, families, and policy makers.

    Services and Supports White Paper Working Group

    Principles:

    * We believe that supporting siblings with and without disabilities benefits
    the entire family and society as a whole.

    * We believe that siblings of individuals with disabilities need
    information, opportunities to share, training, and opportunities for
    guidance.

    * We believe that siblings have a unique perspective due to our life
    experience that should be valued and recognized.

    * We believe that siblings should be respected in their choice to be
    lovingly involved at whatever level and in whatever way they choose.

    Action Steps:

    * Identify models that are serving siblings across the lifespan (collect
    information on services that are out there and compile them in a place
    people can use as a tangible resource).

    * Identify creative ways to expand existing models and develop new ones.

    * Reach out to connect other siblings, caregiving coalitions, and other
    relevant groups.

    * Conference call in 3-4 weeks to follow up.

    _______________________

    Katie Keiling

    Community Support Coordinator

    Institute on Disability and Human Development

    University of Illinois at Chicago

    1640 W. Roosevelt Rd, Rm#251B

    Chicago, IL 60608

    (312) 996-1002

    (312) 413-0453 TTY

    (312) 413-4098 Fax

    http://www.uic.edu/orgs/idhd/

    Friday, September 19, 2008

    Legislative forum

    I am encouraging as many families to attend this as they can!!

    Saturday, September 20th, 2008
    Orland Park Civic Center

    14750 S. Ravinia Avenue, Orland Park
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    > (One Block West of La Grange Road at 147th)
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    > 12:30 pm to 3:30 pm
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    > Doors open at noon.
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    > EVERYBODY WELCOME, persons with disabilities of all kinds, their
    > families, friends, advocates, community leaders, services providers,
    > staff persons, concerned citizens.
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    > SPEAKERS
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    > Orland Park Mayor, DANIEL McLAUGHLIN
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    > Office of Governor, Deputy Governor, BOB GREENLEE
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    > DHS, DD Division Director, LILIA TENINTY
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    > DHS, MH Division Director, LORRIE JONES, PH.D.
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    > 12:30 Panel
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    > 41st District Senatorial Candidate, AUDREY MANLEY (D)
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    > 41st Senatorial District, SENATOR CHRISTINE RADOHNO (R)
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    > 85th District REP BRENT HASSERT (R)
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    > 11th (S Congressional District Candidate, MARY OZINGA (R)
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    > 75Th District Candidate, DAVID McALOON (R)
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    > 38Th District, REP AL RILEY (D)
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    > 37th District,REP KEVIN McCARTHY (D)
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    > 43rd District, SENATOR A.J. Wilhelmi (D)
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    > 18th District SENATOR ED MALONEY (D)
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    > 1:30 Panel
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    > 81st district candidate, RICK KELLY (D)
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    > 11th us congressional district candidate, JASON WALLACE (G)
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    > 84th district candidate, DENNIE GROSKOPH (D)
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    > 38Th district SENATOR GARY DAHL (R)
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    > 42nd district candidate TERRI ANNE WINTERMUTE (R)
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    > 30th district , REP WILLIAM DAVIS, (D)
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    > 75th dist. REP CAREEN GORDON (D)
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    > 11th us congressional district candidate SENATOR DEBBIE HALVORSON
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    > 27th district, REP MONIQUE DAVIS (D)
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    > 2:30 panel
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    > 81st dist REP RENE KOSWL (R)
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    > 42nd district SENATOR LINDA HOLMES (D)
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    > 86th district REP JACK McGUIRE (D)
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    > 41 st district candidate KEVIN O'CONNOR (G)
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    > 79th district REP LISA DUGAN (D)
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    > 19th district SENATOR MAGGIE ROTTY (D)
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    > 80th district REP GEORGE F. SCULLY (D)
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    > Terri O'Gara, BSW, QMRP
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    > C&A ISC
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    > Service, Inc.
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    > 1740 W. McDonough St.
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    > Joliet, Illinois 60436
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    > 815-741-0800
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    Thursday, September 18, 2008

    What Kind of Advocacy Do Americans with Disabilities Really Need?

    What Kind of Advocacy Do Americans with Disabilities Really Need?

    By Paul K. Longmore

    Ever since Sarah Palin’s acceptance speech, the “needs” of children with disabilities have gotten a lot of press. Palin pledged to be a “friend and advocate” for those children. News stories have reported the excitement of parents and other people in the disability rights constituency that disability issues are finally getting some attention. Some of them have decided to support the election of Palin and John McCain. But do the Republican candidates offer the kind of advocacy Americans with disabilities really need? I don’t believe they do, and I want to explain why I am voting for Barack Obama and Joe Biden instead.

    Before that, I should probably explain a bit about myself. I know what it is like to grow up as a child with a significant disability. And I’ve certainly known how hard it can be as an adult. I had polio as a boy. I’ve used a ventilator for many decades now and driven a power wheelchair for the last seven years. I have no use of my arms. I employ personal assistants to do housekeeping and aid me with basic personal needs. I struggled for years with oppressive bureaucracies and unfair public policies such as work disincentives. I recounted those battles in Why I Burned My Book and Other Essays on Disability (2003). Because of the disability rights movement and despite most government policies, I finally achieved my main goal and became a professor of American history at San Francisco State University. Because of what I’ve had to deal with, I also became a disability rights activist and a disability studies scholar.

    Looking back, I can see how difficult it all was for my parents and what little support they got. It is understandable that parents of children with disabilities would clutch at Sarah Palin’s promise to be an “advocate.” Many of them are increasingly desperate. Last month a University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill study documented the “chilling” rates of “hardship” among middle class as well as poor families with disabled children. They “are struggling to keep food on the table, a roof over their heads, and to pay for needed health and dental care.” (1) Large numbers of adults with disabilities face the same economic hardships.

    We’ve made a lot of progress in disability rights, but in some ways it’s even harder financially for people with disabilities and their families than it was when I was a child, a youth, and a young adult. From both my personal experience and professional work, I understand what it’s like for a lot of us. And I think I have some grasp on what sort of advocacy we need.

    Would Palin provide that kind of advocacy? Would a President John McCain support the needs, interests, and rights of Americans with disabilities? What about Barack Obama and Joe Biden?

    In their convention speeches, Palin, John, and even Cindy McCain focused only on children. The media have talked almost exclusively about children too. What so many people seem to forget is that children with disabilities grow up to become adults. Ninety percent of the 54 million Americans with disabilities are adults. Most acquired their disabilities after childhood.

    In addition, the media talk has mostly been about “compassion” not about “issues.” There has been little discussion about issues that matter to people with disabilities of all ages, issues such as health insurance, community-based personal assistance services, education, employment, and civil rights. Research has repeatedly found that voters in the disability constituency — adults with disabilities, parents, and many professionals — decide how they will vote based on candidates’ positions on disability issues. But they are often frustrated in trying to get that information.

    In what follows, I summarize and critically examine the information I have gathered about the candidates’ stands. I have gleaned it from online and printed sources as well as contacting some of the leading experts in the various communities that compose the disability rights constituency. Some of the information out there in the blogosphere is wrong. I’ve tried to get accurate and reliable information instead.  Sometimes those experts I mentioned set me straight about things I had thought were true that they said were incorrect. It strikes me as significant that as far as I can tell the vast majority of those experts and other disability rights leaders are supporting the Obama-Biden ticket.

    I want to make clear that I’m not speaking for that campaign. The analysis below represents my assessments, my conclusions, about the candidates’ positions on issues. Here’s what I’ve found out:

    Obama and Biden have a set of detailed policy proposals called their “Plan to Empower Americans with Disabilities.” You can find it on their campaign website. (2) In contrast, the McCain-Palin website’s single page on “Americans with Disabilities for McCain” offers no policy positions. (3) Elsewhere, that website mentions autism and disabled veterans but no other issues. (4) (The Obama-Biden website also lays out policy proposals regarding both autism and disabled veterans.)  So I’ve tried to glean McCain’s and Palin’s stands from their speeches, votes, and actions.

    Here are some of the policy positions of the two pairs of candidates:

    Medicare. Obama co-sponsored legislation to end the two-year wait for recently disabled persons to qualify for Medicare after qualifying for Social Security Disability Insurance. This proposal is important because that waiting period is a time when many people with disabilities have no health insurance.  McCain has not taken a position on that bill.

    Mental Health Parity. Obama also co-sponsored the Mental Health Parity Act.  This legislation would prohibit health plans from requiring higher deductibles or co-pays while offering mental health benefits more limited than the medical coverage they provide.  McCain has not taken position on that bill.

    Health Insurance. The McCain-Palin website seeks to refute the “myth” that under his healthcare plan, people “with pre-existing conditions would be denied insurance.”  In fact, that is not the criticism being made. Rather, the criticism is that McCain’s healthcare plan would not ban insurance discrimination against individuals with disabilities and pre-existing health conditions.

    As further refutation, the website points out that McCain supported the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 which did provide “some protection against exclusion of pre-existing conditions.” In fact, that protection is both expensive and limited.

    The website also declares that “nothing in John McCain’s plan changes the fact that if you are employed and insured you will build protection against the cost of any pre-existing condition.” This is a very complicated issue, but putting it as simply as possible this defense of McCain’s plan ignores the difficulties many people with disabilities and pre-existing conditions have in getting and maintaining both employment and insurance. It also implicitly assumes that they have the financial resources to purchase insurance.

    Finally, the website promises that “as President, John McCain would work with governors to find the solutions necessary to ensure those with pre-existing conditions are able to easily access care.” This language is a euphemism for the creation of high risk pools that have high premiums, high deductibles, time limited coverage, and often long waiting lists. Elsewhere, the website promises that McCain will “limit premiums” and provide assistance to families below a certain income level. But this market-driven approach has not worked in states that have established high risk pools.

    By way of contrast, here is the comparable section of the Obama-Biden “Plan”:

    “Guaranteeing Health Care Coverage: Many people with disabilities do not seek work or leave the workforce because they need the guaranteed health insurance that the federal government’s benefit programs provide.  As a result, many stay on Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI) and Supplemental Security Income (SSI), which include Medicare or Medicaid coverage, rather than take a job that might jeopardize their health care coverage. Barack Obama has pledged to sign universal health care legislation by the end of his first term in office that will assure that Americans with disabilities will have quality, affordable, portable coverage that will allow them to take a job without fear of losing coverage. People with disabilities who lose their Medicare or Medicaid eligibility by taking a job, but still cannot afford coverage, will be provided a subsidy in order to purchase coverage. Moreover, under Obama’s plan, insurers will not be able to deny coverage on the basis of pre-existing conditions.”

    In addition, Obama co-sponsored legislation that would allow states to enroll families with incomes up to 300% of the poverty level in the State Children’s Health Insurance Program (SCHIP). This policy is vital for families with children who have expensive disability-related healthcare needs, children like Sarah Palin’s son. McCain and his fellow Republicans in the Senate opposed the bill.  Gov. Palin, reported the Wall Street Journal, was “reluctant to support significant expansion” of Alaska’s version of SCHIP, so she chose to accept families with incomes only “up to 175% of the poverty level.” The Journal called Palin’s policy “stingy compared with other states.” (5) Nor has she restored the state’s mental health program that was essentially dismantled several years ago.  Nor has she reduced the state’s “Developmental Disabilities Waiting List, a list of individuals whose needs qualify them for assistance, but that the state doesn’t have adequate funding to help.” (6) Or so the Alaska administration says.  This at a time when the state government is awash in oil revenues.

    Palin has “never elucidated a health care plan or vision or any kind of connection to the disability community,” said Jim Beck, executive director of Access Alaska, an advocacy and independent living services agency for people with disabilities. “We’re really suffering from not having a big plan.” (7) Palin has not made “health care one of her top priorities,” reported the Wall Street Journal, but she does strongly support a “market- and business-driven” approach.  Expanding health insurance “was less of an issue for Gov. Palin, much as it is less significant for Sen. McCain.” (8) Nonetheless, McCain too embraces the ideological dogma that profit-oriented businesses will resolve the inequities in the U.S. health insurance system and somehow cover those who are currently uninsured or underinsured. Among those Americans struggling the most desperately are people with disabilities and families.

    Many adults with disabilities and parents of children with disabilities confront another particularly harsh and unjust situation caused by public policies.  Medicaid “long-term care” funding is skewed toward institutionalization or nursing home placement. But most of those adults and parents want people with disabilities of all ages to have the option to live in the community, with or near family and friends. Agreeing with them, Obama and Biden are co-sponsoring the Community Choice Act (CCA) to allow individuals to decide where they will live by funding community-based personal assistance services.  McCain opposes the bill. He assumes it would cost too much. (9) But studies have shown that community-based or independent living is almost always cheaper than institutionalization. It also ensures the self-determination prized by people with disabilities, including many people with Down syndrome. These competing policies will have a major impact on Palin’s son. Will she endorse CCA? Can she persuade her running mate to vote for it?

    Education. In 1975 after years of strenuous lobbying mostly by parents, Congress passed the Education for All Handicapped Children Act (since renamed the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act). Up until then, most such children were barred from public schools and got little or no education.  Nowadays, most go to school and graduate.  Congress promised to provide up to 40% of the funding for this mandate but has never done so. Obama and Biden favor full funding. McCain nowadays says he does too, though in past years he voted against it.

    The Obama-Biden “Plan to Empower Americans with Disabilities” lays out a comprehensive policy agenda to enhance educational opportunities for young people with disabilities from early childhood through college. It also includes consideration of transition from school to work. It is too detailed for me to go into here, but if you are a parent, professional, or person with a disability concerned about educational opportunities I would urge you to go online and look at that portion of the “Plan.”

    As far as I can tell, the McCain-Palin website’s several pages on education include nothing about the education of children and youths with disabilities. (10) (I can’t be certain because, unlike the Obama-Biden website, the McCain-Palin website has no “Search” capability.)

    Biden, an original cosponsor of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act, has a long record of supporting the educational rights of children with disabilities and the civil rights of all Americans with disabilities. He came to his advocacy from personal knowledge of the prejudice youngsters with disabilities come up against. As a boy who stuttered severely, he experienced ridicule and abuse firsthand.

    Some news outlets and blogs erroneously reported that as governor Sarah Palin slashed special education funding. Others are now incorrectly saying that she increased such funding 300%. The funding was indeed increased, but Palin only signed a bill developed by others. CNN reported that the bill’s actual co-sponsors felt “frustrated… by [her] stepping in only at the last minute.”  Meanwhile, Sonya Kerr, an Anchorage attorney specializing in disability rights, sued the state and Palin for failing to provide adequate services for children with disabilities. (11)

    Palin also cut $125,000 in funding for assistive technology for people with disabilities. According to Alaskan disability rights advocates, before her acceptance speech she showed little interest in disability issues. “I can tell you she wasn’t a champion for disabled children as governor,” said one state senator. (12) It’s not that Palin only became aware of these matters after her son’s birth in April.  Her sister’s son has autism. (13)

    Employment. The Obama-Biden “Plan” to “increase the employment rate of workers with disabilities” encompasses several major innovations. Perhaps most notable, they pledge to implement Section 503 of the 1973 Rehabilitation Act. That provision requires all federal agencies and federal contractors to “take affirmative action to employ and advance in employment qualified individuals with disabilities.” Section 503’s affirmative action mandate has never been enforced. “Affirmative action in employment for adults with disabilities,” notes the “Plan,” “is not enforced with goals and timetables like the affirmative action requirements for people of color and women found in Executive Order No. 11246 and its progeny.” As president, Obama will direct the Secretary of Labor to bring the regulations implementing Section 503 more into line with that executive order. In other words, he recognizes disability as a civil rights category comparable to race and gender.

    Just as important, Obama promises to establish a National Commission on People with Disabilities, Employment, and Social Security.  He will charge this commission to undertake, at long last, the elimination of work disincentives in Social Security Disability Insurance, Supplemental Security Income, Medicare, and Medicaid policies.

    In addition, Obama pledges to increase substantially federal hiring of workers with disabilities. He will also provide private-sector employers with resources to accommodate workers with disabilities and encourage them to use tax incentives to hire more workers with disabilities. Moreover, federal programs will provide support for small businesses owned by persons with disabilities. Finally, administration policies will assure “flexibility at work” to both workers with disabilities and nondisabled workers who have responsibilities at home to provide assistance to family members with disability-related and healthcare needs.

    In contrast to this comprehensive plan regarding employment, I can find no mention of employment and people with disabilities on the McCain-Palin website.

    Civil Rights. McCain and Biden voted for the Americans with Disabilities Act. They and Obama voted for the ADA Amendments Act. All three declare their support of anti-discrimination protections and guarantees of equal access and reasonable accommodations. But disability rights leaders point out that the Amendments Act is necessary because, contrary to Congress’s intent, federal courts dominated by right-wing judicial activists decided that millions of Americans with disabilities — people with epilepsy, diabetes, mental health disabilities, HIV-AIDS, and other disabilities — do not match the ADA’s definition of “disability”  and therefore do not qualify for its protections. McCain and Palin pledge to appoint more judges like Scalia and Thomas, Roberts and Alito, the very jurists whose rulings have left 70% of Americans with disabilities without civil rights protections.

    In contrast, Obama has declared that as president he will appoint “Judges and Justices who respect laws designed to protect people with disabilities [.] …. The Supreme Court’s interpretations of the ADA have shown disrespect for Congress’ intent and frustrated the law’s goals of fully integrating people with disabilities into society.”  “As a former civil rights lawyer and a strong advocate for workplace diversity, Barack Obama understands the critical importance of reducing workplace and labor market discrimination against people with disabilities…” Reversing the Bush administration’s cutbacks in funding for the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) and the Department of Labor’s Office of Federal Contract Compliance Programs (OFCCP), “the agencies tasked with enforcing anti-discrimination laws that protect workers with
    disabilities,” he pledges full funding and increased staffing to reduce the backlog  of discrimination complaints and “prosecute efforts to remedy systemic discrimination.”

    McCain and Palin have made no comparable pledge. Indeed, with their philosophy of disengaged government they could not. Perhaps after a few years “experience” raising a child with a disability, Palin will see things differently. But people with disabilities have already waited an awfully long time for their civil rights and the vital services they need.

    These are just some of the issues that concern the disability constituency. Disabled veterans’ needs are a complex issue I am studying.  I may write about it at a later date. Suffice it to say for now that Sen. McCain has apparently favorably talked about a voucher system, essentially a privatization of at least elements of the veterans’ benefits system. This proposal is provoking deep concern among many veterans with disabilities.

    The American Association of People with Disabilities estimates that there are some 36 million potential voters with disabilities. If we conservatively reckon that for every voter with a disability there is at least one nondisabled voter concerned about disability issues (a family member or professional), we are talking about a voting bloc comprising tens of millions of Americans. That voting constituency could determine the outcome of a close election. Yet despite all of the talk in the last couple of weeks about compassion toward children with disabilities, our issues still get only limited attention from the news media and most politicians. I have concluded that Barack Obama and Joe Biden are paying attention.  That’s why I’m going to vote for them.

    Paul K. Longmore is a professor of history and director, Institute on Disability, at San Francisco State University.

    FOOTNOTES:

    (1)  “UNC study: ‘chilling’ hardship rates among families raising disabled children,” August 18, 2008, http://uncnews.unc.edu/news/health-and-medicine/unc-study-chilling-hardship-rates-among-families-raising-disabled-children.html

    (2) http://www.barackobama.com/issues/disabilities

    (3) http://americanswithdisabilities.johnmccain.com/AmericansWithDisabilities.htm

    (4) http://www.johnmccain.com/Informing/Issues

    (5)
    Jim Carlton, Michael M. Phillips, Elizabeth Williamson and Laura Meckler, “In Alaska, a Nuanced Record,” Wall Street Journal, (September 4, 2008), A1.

    (6) Brendan Joel Kelley, “Sarah and the kids,” Anchorage Press, (September 11, 2008), http://www.anchoragepress.com/site/basicarticle.asp?ID=831

    (7) Kelley, “Sarah and the kids.”

    (8) Carlton, et al., “In Alaska, a Nuanced Record.”

    (9) National Forum on Disability Issues, Columbus, Ohio, July 26, 2008, http://www.aapd.com/News/election/080726forumtrans.htm

    (10) See also the Council for Exceptional Children’s Voter Education Guide, Election 2008, Meet the 2008 Candidates, available at http://www.cec.sped.org/AM/Template.cfm?Section=Home&TEMPLATE=/CM/ContentDisplay.cfm&CONTENTID=10557

    (11) CNN, “Biden’s comments on special needs kids called ‘new low’,” September 10, 2008, http://www.cnn.com/2008/POLITICS/09/09/biden.special.needs/index.html#cnnSTCText

    (12) Kelley, “Sarah and the kids.”

    (13)
    CNN, “Biden’s comments.”

    See also earlier posts:

     

    Monday, September 1, 2008

    Moving out of a state institution

    From the Chicago Tribune, an interesting article about an adult
    woman who recently moved from Howe into a group home. It's this
    kind of story that makes me wonder how sibs can help change the system in IL.  Tara and I recently attended a meeting about changing the whole system in IL.   Here's the article:

    A home that heals
    After years in a state institution, a woman with autism finds a
    better life and independence in a small group home.

    By Joel Hood and Bonnie Miller Rubin | Chicago Tribune reporters
    4:35 PM CDT, August 30, 2008
    Deep into middle age, Helen Jarski is finally home.

    She lives in a suburban ranch house on a quiet, tree-lined street
    southwest of Chicago. When visitors stop by, the 48-year-old eagerly
    shows off the kitchen where she makes snacks, the cozy bedroom she
    keeps remarkably clean and the living room where she sometimes
    watches her favorite movies: "Flipper" and "Lassie."

    It is a humble home, to be sure. But for Helen and thousands of
    other disabled adults across Illinois, group homes such as this are
    a profound change from the state institutions in which they used to
    live.

    Advocates for disabled adults and numerous studies long have praised
    group homes for fostering independence and consistency—ingredients
    considered vital for meaningful and productive lives. During the
    last 30 years, states have responded by funneling millions of
    dollars into programs to lift disabled adults out of institutions
    and into small, privately run group homes.

    Change has been widespread—except in Illinois, which spends less of
    its money on small group homes and more on public institutions than
    any state in the nation. Illinois ranks at or near the bottom in per
    capita spending in almost every category when it comes to caring for
    disabled adults—a record that critics call "shameful"
    and "embarrassing."

    And in recent weeks, millions more that would have helped people
    move from institutions has been sliced from the state budget.

    "These cuts are draconian," said Tony Paulauski, director of the Arc
    of Illinois, an advocacy organization for the developmentally
    disabled. "This is the worst situation I've seen in 25 years."

    Helen lived more than half her life in a state facility. Though
    there were good times, her family said, impersonal care and ever-
    changing staff were growing sources of frustration and worry in the
    last five years. As arguments swirl in Illinois over the best way to
    care for these folks, the Jarskis' story mirrors the struggles of so
    many who already have left institutions and the thousands more
    wanting to get out."We absolutely are concerned and working very
    hard to improve the quality of care [at Howe Developmental Center],"
    said Lilia Teninty, director of the Department of Human Services'
    developmental disability division. "The majority of the people we've
    transitioned out of state care have come from Howe. But, I think,
    not everyone has the same experience there."

    •••

    Helen is autistic. She is graying around the temples, but has the IQ
    of a preschooler. For the Jarskis, Howe solved the problem of what
    to do with their daughter long before the mysterious disability had
    the celebrity clout it does today.

    "No one even knew about autism," said Rose Jarski, 69, Helen's
    mother and relentless advocate. "They just told me she was brain
    damaged . . . that I should institutionalize her and forget about
    her. But I knew she could learn."

    That was in the early 1960s. With no Internet, but armed with
    unconditional love, she navigated Helen's world, unearthing special
    schools, therapies and clinicians.

    In 1966, Rose and Frank Jarski, a printer, moved from their
    Southwest Side bungalow to Burbank, an inner-ring suburb that
    offered better services. And when those interventions stopped
    meeting her needs, Rose learned to drive so Helen could attend a
    school in Oak Park, where they eventually settled. And when that
    placement unraveled, it was on to another school in Palos Hills,
    where the family has lived since.

    "Honestly, I don't know what I would have done if Helen hadn't been
    in my life. I couldn't drive. I was shy and quiet . . . but I
    learned to fight."

    Despite everyone's best efforts, Helen slipped into a world beyond
    their reach. It wasn't until age 18, when self-abusive behaviors
    emerged—hitting herself on the face, tearing her clothes—that
    Helen's mother realized she could no longer keep her at home.

    Rose again channeled her energy into making life better for Helen.
    Less than a half-hour away, Howe had opened in Tinley Park. The
    facility, with its low brick buildings and campuslike atmosphere,
    was a vast improvement over the fortresses of Dixon and Lincoln,
    institutions that made parents shudder.

    Beginning in the late 1970s, Howe provided Helen with exactly what
    she needed: structure and a sense of purpose. Most days were spent
    doing menial jobs such as folding napkins or packing toilet paper
    for pennies an hour, Rose said. While she hadn't progressed
    cognitively or emotionally, she seemed happy.

    Then things changed: the haphazard care, the days spent on a bench
    without outings or activities, the revolving door of staff. In one
    of her final years at Howe, Helen had 55 caregivers in one month—a
    hardship for anyone, but particularly for a population that thrives
    on consistency.

    "Some staff didn't even know her name," Rose said.

    One Sunday night, after Helen visited her parents' home, Rose drove
    her back to Howe only to find everyone had called in sick and nobody
    was around to let her in.

    •••

    Critics calling for the closings of state institutions have
    identified what they consider the poster child for stubborn
    ineptitude when it comes to these facilities: Howe.

    Watchdog groups have compiled a list of at least 21 deaths there
    since 2005 they say are directly attributable to substandard care.
    The center recently got its third director in as many years. Last
    year, the neglect forced the federal government to rescind Howe's
    Medicaid certification, stripping the center of nearly $30 million
    and triggering an investigation by the U.S. Department of Justice.

    But rather than close Howe and find alternatives for its 320
    residents, Illinois became its sole provider. The state spends $60
    million a year—or roughly $169,000 per resident—to keep Howe open.

    "Imagine how that money could be used out in the community," said
    Zena Naiditch, president of the non-profit watchdog Equip for
    Equality.

    How did the state get here? Experts point to lack of leadership,
    mixed messages from parents of residents and the state's history of
    favoring unions and job-rich institutions.

    "We're in this mess because we hung on to institutions more than
    anyone else," said Art Dykstra, who once ran Howe and now is at the
    helm of Trinity Services, the agency that runs Helen's new home.

    Since 2005, the state has moved a couple of hundred people from
    institutions to group homes. Teninty vowed to keep up the momentum.

    "We still have a lot of work to do in expanding capacity in the
    community," she said. "There are limited resources and unlimited
    needs."

    •••

    After five years on a waiting list, Helen is one of the lucky ones,
    ending up in April in this New Lenox ranch on 2 bucolic acres. Her
    room is decorated with family photos and balloons from a recent
    birthday. More than physical surroundings, it is the care that has
    changed.

    Said Frank: "Her sentences have become more conversational," which
    he and the staff attribute to the new environment—proof that even
    now, small triumphs are possible.

    Rose no longer worries if she is unable to pick up her daughter
    every Friday afternoon. Helen is no longer agitated when her mother
    drops her off, and sometimes forgets even to say goodbye as she
    exits the car.

    Tuesday, August 26, 2008

    Sibling Leadership Network 2008 Conference Update

    Register Now for the 2nd Annual Meeting of the Sibling Leadership Network!

    November 6 & 7, 2008, Columbus Ohio

    Last year's conference in DC was an amazing event and this one will be as well!  Sibling Leadership Network meetings are a remarkable opportunity to connect with adult sibs (and others committed to issues important to sibs) from around the US and beyond. 

    Speakers include Jeff and Cindy Daly (creators of the documentary Where's Molly?), Stan Klein (disability policy advisor to Barack Obama) Michael Wehmeyer (on sibs and self-determination), Tom Fish, Don Meyer, Tamar Heller, Emily Marino, Cathy Allen, Katie Keiling and many others.

    Download the conference brochure

    Hosted by the Nisonger Center at The Ohio State University; Rehabilitation Research and Training Center of Lifespan Health and Function and I/DD; The Sibling Support Project; and the Vanderbilt Kennedy Center for Excellence in Developmental Disabilities.

    Thursday, July 10, 2008

    Save the Date! The 2nd Annual Sibling Leadership Network Meeting

    SAVE THE DATE! The 2nd Annual Meeting of The Sibling Leadership Network

    ImageNovember 6-7, 2008 Columbus, Ohio
    Marriott Airport Hotel

    Connect with others who have a sibling with a disability--and share your knowledge and experience!


    With presentations, workshops, and breakouts by:
    • Jeff and Cindy Daly (directors of the film Where?s Molly)
    • Dean Fadel (lobbyist extraordinaire)
    • Tom Fish (OhioSIBS and OSU)
    • Tamar Heller (University of Illinois, Chicago)
    • Ann Kaiser (Vanderbilt)
    • Katie Keiling (University of Illinois, Chicago)
    • Stan Klein (member of Senator Barack Obama's Disability Task Force)
    • John Kramer (University of Illinois, Chicago)
    • Emily Marino (YAI)
    • Don Meyer (The Sibling Support Project)
    • Mike Wehmeyer (University of Kansas)
    • and many others!

    On topics including:
    • Siblings and Self-Advocates Working Together for Policies that Benefit Everyone;
    • Creating Community-Based Adult Sibling Programs;
    • Sibshops and Other Considerations for Young Brothers and Sisters;
    • Sibs' Role in Self-Determination;
    • Senator Barack Obama's Disability Policy;
    • Research on Sibling Concerns;
    • For Better or Worse: Siblings' Influence on Choosing A Mate;
    • Influencing Legislators;
    • Spreading the Word about Sibling Issues and the Work of the Sibling Leadership Network!

    Hosted by: The Nisonger Center at The Ohio State University, the Rehabilitation Research and Training Center on Aging with Developmental Disabilities, The Sibling Support Project, and the Vanderbilt Kennedy Center for Excellence in Developmental Disabilities

    More details available in late July on www.siblingsupport.org !
    Mark your calendar!!

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    Wednesday, May 7, 2008

    H.R. 5873

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    Please sign on in support of Family Leave Insurance Act!
     

    Dear Friends,
    Representatives Pete Stark, Carolyn Maloney, George Miller, and Lynn Woolsey have introduced a new, comprehensive paid leave program: H.R. 5873, The Family Leave Insurance Act of 2008. Please join us in supporting the bill by signing on to the letter of support. The legislation is similar to the bill introduced in the Senate last year by Senators Dodd and Stevens, but the House version offers expanded coverage and benefits.
    We have drafted a letter in support of the bill and encourage all to sign on. Please email or call Steffany Stern to sign on to the letter (sstern@nationalpartnership.org or 202-238-4881). If you are interested in receiving more information on the differences between the House and Senate versions of the bill, please contact us.
    Overview of the Family Leave Insurance Act:

    * Provides up to 12 weeks of paid leave for workers who need time off to care for a new child, a seriously ill family member, or to recover from their own serious illness.
    * Expands the definition of family to include domestic partners, grandparents, grandchildren, and siblings.
    * Covers all employees who have paid into the system for at least six months; also covers part-time employees, defined as workers employed for at least 625 hours per year (or around 20 hours per week).
    * Creates a "Family Leave Insurance Fund," funded by premiums paid by both employers and workers, equal to 0.2% of each worker's earnings.
    * Benefits are progressively tiered based on income:

    * 100% of weekly earnings to $20,000
    * 75% of weekly earnings to $30,000
    * 55% of weekly earnings for $30,001-$60,000
    * 45% of weekly earnings for $60,001-$97,000

    * Job protection provided for FMLA-eligible workers.
    * Employers or states with equivalent or more generous benefits may opt out of the program.

    We applaud our allies in the U.S. House of Representatives for their commitment to working families, and we look forward to working with all of you as we support their efforts in the upcoming months. 
    Thanks,
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    Friday, May 2, 2008

    Barbara Walters - as a Sib


    NEW YORK ‹ After three decades of keeping mum, Barbara Walters is disclosing
    a past affair with married U.S. Senator Edward Brooke, whom she remembers as
    "exciting" and "brilliant."

    Appearing on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" scheduled to air Tuesday, Walters
    shares details of her relationship with Brooke that lasted several years in
    the 1970s, according to a transcript of the show provided to The Associated
    Press.

    A moderate Republican from Massachusetts who took office in 1967, Brooke was
    the first African-American to be popularly elected to the Senate. Both he
    and Walters knew that public knowledge of their affair could have ruined his
    career as well as hers, Walters says.

    At the time, the twice-divorced Walters was a rising star in TV news and
    co-host of NBC's "Today" show, but would soon jump to ABC News, where she
    has enjoyed unrivaled success. Her affair with Brooke, which never before
    came to light, had ended before he lost his bid for a third term in 1978.

    Brooke later divorced, and has since remarried. Calls to a listing for
    Brooke in Miami by The Associated Press were not immediately returned
    Thursday.

    Walters is the guest of Oprah Winfrey to discuss her new memoir, "Audition,"
    which covers her long career in television, as well as her off-camera life.
    On "Oprah," Walters recounts a phone call from a friend who urged her to
    stop seeing Brooke.

    "He said, 'This is going to come out. This is going to ruin your career,'"
    then reminded her that Brooke was up for re-election a year later. "'This is
    going to ruin him. You've got to break this off.'"

    Winfrey asks Walters if she was in love.

    "I was certainly _ I don't know _ I was certainly infatuated."

    "Infatuated."

    "I was certainly involved," Walters says. "He was exciting. He was
    brilliant. It was exciting times in Washington."

    Also during the program, Walters chokes up while describing the struggles of
    her older sister Jackie, who was mentally retarded. Walters confesses that,
    as a child, she sometimes felt embarrassed by Jackie.

    "She stuttered terribly. People made fun of her. People made fun of me,"
    Walters says. "I didn't bring friends home. I felt terribly guilty because
    she was very loving and I didn't always feel that way."

    Jackie Walters died in 1985 of ovarian cancer.

    "When I think of her, because she was beautiful and loving and all of that,
    it makes me cry."

    Saturday, April 26, 2008

    waiting for services

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    Hundreds of thousand of children and adults with developmental disabilities
    are sitting at home with aging parents and guardians, losing school-taught
    skills, while waiting for state and federal funding for services. Parents and
    children are held “prisoner” in their current state of residence because to
    move would require them to lose services or their place in a wait list, and
    then have to start at the bottom in another state.

    NOEWAIT – the National Organization to End the Waitlist, considers this a
    disgrace. Parents and advocates from across the country are joining together
    in a collaborative effort to bring national attention to waitlists and
    service portability between states, and find national solutions.

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